Relationships · 7 min
How to use the oracle after an argument
After conflict, cards should reduce noise, not choose a winner.
Cool first
Do not open a reading in the first wave of anger. Write the fact, emotion, and need.
Then question
A good question sounds like: what step preserves dignity and does not increase harm?
Short checklist
- • Wait 20 minutes.
- • Name the boundary.
- • Do not use cards as a weapon.