question topic
Questions after conflict
After conflict, the oracle should cool the fire, not feed the oil of righteousness.
Strong questions
- • What in this conflict was fact, and what was my defense?
- • Where is a boundary needed, and where is a conversation needed?
- • What step humiliates neither me nor the other?
Weak formulations
- • Who will win?
- • Who is finally guilty?
- • How do I make them apologize?
Best doors
Boundary
If the conflict involves violence, threats, or control, safety and help come before symbols.
Journal prompt: Write one sentence that can be said without accusation.