situation
When someone is silent
A section for situations where another person's silence creates anxiety, fantasy, and the urge to get a sign immediately.
What to ask
- • What do I know for sure, and what am I adding from fear?
- • What calm way to clarify is available now?
- • What do I need to preserve in myself while there is no answer?
What to avoid
- • When exactly will they text?
- • Are they silent because they love me?
- • How do I make them contact me?
Recommended doors
Small ritual
Before a reading, write one line of facts and one line of feelings. Do not mix them in one cup.
Boundary: Another person's silence is not consent, promise, or proof of feeling. OmenHall should not replace live conversation and respect for boundaries.