crossroads
If you are facing a choice
Fits two roads, an offer, move, conversation, pause, refusal, project start, or a decision that cannot be reduced to yes/no.
Why this method
- ✦ Tarot shows the different forces around options well.
- ✦ I Ching helps when the choice involves process and timing.
- ✦ The result does not command; it helps reveal the next honest step.
Safe question templates
What resources and risks does each option have?
What am I not considering in this crossroads?
Which next step helps test reality, not fantasy?
Best for
- • comparing resources, risks, and hidden costs of options
- • seeing a consequence map, not an order
- • forming the nearest testable action
Steps
- 1. Write the two options in simple words.
- 2. Name the fear that increases the noise.
- 3. Ask about risks, resources, and the nearest test.
Red flags
- ! You are seeking permission for a risk that already feels unsafe.
- ! You want a guarantee instead of reflection.